The Connection Corner

Wisdom Beside Me

Proverbs 24:6 — So don’t go to war without wise guidance; victory depends on having many advisers.

The track was quiet that afternoon—the kind of quiet that lets you hear yourself think. I was walking beside my mentor, my safe place for the messy thoughts I don’t always voice out loud.

I was heavy with doubts swirling in my mind—the next steps God was asking me to take, the fear of failing, the temptation to lean on my own understanding instead of His.

She didn’t rush me. She just listened, eyes steady, letting my words spill into the space between us. Then she began asking questions—questions that cut deeper than my surface worries, questions that made me confront what I’d been trying to avoid. I didn’t always want the answers she gave. Sometimes they felt sharp, uncomfortable. But they were exactly what I needed.

Gently, she reminded me I didn’t have to carry this alone. “Lean into what God has already shown you,” she said. “You don’t have to figure it all out at once.” Her words weren’t magic—they didn’t make every step clear—but they anchored me. They pointed me toward trust instead of fear, toward faith instead of my own frantic plans.

I thought about Proverbs 24:6 as she spoke: “So don’t go to war without wise guidance; victory depends on having many advisers.” I saw it in real time—this wisdom, born from years of walking with God, shaping me, steadying me, and helping me see my next step with clarity and courage.

I left that track lighter, steadier, and stronger. The weight hadn’t vanished, but I’d been reminded that God often works through people to guide us, clarify the path, and empower us to move forward boldly.

If you’ve been carrying your next step all by yourself, consider inviting someone into your journey—someone with wisdom who has walked before you in faith. Pray that God will place a mentor and a voice of truth in your life. And then, step forward with confidence, trusting that God uses the counsel of the faithful to equip and strengthen you for the road ahead.

A MOMENT TO REFLECT

Who in your life could serve as a mentor or wise adviser to guide you through your next steps?
Are you carrying decisions or burdens on your own that you could bring to someone for counsel?
How do you discern between your own plans and God’s guidance in a situation?
When has seeking advice or mentorship helped you gain clarity or courage in the past?
What steps can you take this week to invite someone into your journey of faith and decision-making?
How can you cultivate a spirit of listening and humility when receiving counsel, even when it challenges you?

January 22, 2026/by Sarah Hall

Prayers That Build a Legacy

Bri Dunn, Daily Devotional

Psalm 69:16 — Answer my prayers, O Lord, for your unfailing love is wonderful. Take care of me, for your mercy is so plentiful.

I was thinking about my dad the other night, just sitting with my thoughts, and it hit me how different his life turned out from the rest of his family.

Most of them, well… they made choices that led to messy, hard roads. But my dad? Somehow, he just became this steady Godly person. If you’ve ever met him you know he’s just so good and kind. And I know where it started—his grandmother.

She prayed over him from the moment he was born. Not casual prayers, either. She would take him in her arms and declare things over his life like, “You’re not going to be like the rest of your family. You are going to be a great man. You are going to do what God’s called you to do.”

Can you imagine believing that kind of thing over someone you love? She did. And she prayed and believed with her whole heart. Now, she didn’t live to see him grow into that person unfortunately, but her prayers changed everything. Every time I look at my dad, I see her prayers answered.

I mean…wow! God is so good. I think about my own prayers sometimes about the people whose lives I am asking God to move in. They feel so far away from Him, and there are days where I’m praying and it feels like my words are just hitting the ceiling. Like nothing is changing and nothing is happening.

Then doubt sneaks in and whispers, “Does it even matter if I pray?”

And then I look at my dad. I see the life he’s built. The way he loves people, the way he carries himself with integrity, and the way faith just seems to flow through him. Its such an answered prayer.

There is this prayer in the Psalms that reminds me so much of my grandma praying for her son. It says, “Answer me, O Lord, for your steadfast love is good; according to your abundant mercy, turn to me” (Psalm 69:16).

It reminds me that God’s movement isn’t measured by what I see. But He is mighty and merciful and patient. He is breaking through like only He can. It’s hard to wrap my mind around it.

But prayer is generational. It travels. I may never see it in my lifetime, but that is okay. Maybe I’ll never even see the result, but they are just like those slow, invisible, chain breaking prayers that shaped my dad. They’re part of a legacy.

So, I am going to keep on praying. And I want you to keep praying too. Even when it feels difficult. Even when it feels like it doesn’t matter because every word carries weight. Every time we cry out to God it matters. God is moving, and your prayers are shaping a future far beyond what you can imagine.

He will answer you because God is good and His abundant mercy never fails.

A MOMENT TO REFLECT

Who has prayed over your life in ways you may not have fully recognized yet?
Is there someone you’ve been praying for where it feels like nothing is changing right now? How does this story encourage you to keep going?
What doubts creep in when prayers seem unanswered—and how can God’s unfailing love reshape those doubts?
What legacy of prayer are you currently building, even if you may never see the full outcome?

January 21, 2026/by Bri Dunn

Life Beyond Likes

Daily Devotional, Tammi Arender

Philippians 4:8 — And now, dear brothers and sisters, one final thing. Fix your thoughts on what is true, and honorable, and right, and pure, and lovely, and admirable. Think about things that are excellent and worthy of praise.

My phone used to sit quietly on the counter, minding its own business.

These days, it buzzes like it’s got something urgent to say every five minutes. And somewhere along the way, I started believing it.

I noticed it one morning when I reached for my phone before I reached for the coffee pot—which, in my house, is saying something. I didn’t mean to let social media take up so much space in my life. It just sort of happened.

One post here. A quick scroll there. Before I knew it, I was posting every day. I was half-convinced that if I didn’t show up online, my life didn’t really count for anything. Like my purpose and relevance had a login and a password.

I’d post something sweet or thoughtful, but then check back later. I’d think, “Did she like it? Did he see it? Why did that one get more attention than this one?”

It’s amazing how quickly you can turn a good thing meant to connect people into something negative that measures your worth like that.

Now, everyone around me handles social media differently. I’ve got friends who post three or four times a day. Bless them, they’ve got the stamina. But I have other friends who are okay disappearing for weeks at a time. And one friend who walked away from social media completely. She just decided life was better without the pressure.

Meanwhile, I’m over here pouring out so much effort and time to keep up appearances. It was all so I could feel better about myself. Now I am aware of it, and no, I haven’t delete all of my accounts, but I am choosing to get honest with myself about how much I allow social media and the opinions of others to affect my self-esteem.

Just like Philippians 4:8 says, “Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things.”

That verse doesn’t tell me to throw my phone in the ditch. No, it tells me to aim my mind on better things. To notice what’s shaping me. To ask whether my thoughts are being fed by comparison, approval, and noise—or by truth, goodness, and peace.

So I’m learning to post less out of insecurity and more out of intention. I’m learning to scroll slower and to look up more. To let God remind me—again and again—where my real worth comes from.

Maybe today is a good time to pause and ask the same question. What’s been shaping your thoughts lately? And what might change if you gently let God realign your focus toward what actually gives life?

A MOMENT TO REFLECT

What do you tend to reach for first when you have a quiet moment—and what does that reveal about what’s shaping your thoughts?
Have you noticed ways comparison or the opinions of others have influenced how you see your worth?
Which of the qualities listed in Philippians 4:8 (true, noble, right, pure, lovely, admirable) do you want to focus on more intentionally this week?
What is one small change you could make to create more space for life-giving thoughts and less noise?

January 20, 2026/by Tammi Arender