The Connection Corner

A daily source of encouragement and inspiration to connect your heart to hope and faith.

Love Has No Expiration Date

Ephesians 3:20-21 — Now all glory to God, who is able, through His mighty power at work within us, to accomplish infinitely more than we might ask or think. Glory to Him in the church and in Christ Jesus through all generations forever and ever! Amen.

I did not notice it at first, the habit I was forming. It felt harmless. Normal. I checked my phone while I waited for the coffee to brew, then again a few minutes later.

There on my screen I saw a friend who just graduated, earning a new title. Someone else had traveled somewhere pretty. Somebody younger than me just started some big, meaningful, and impressive business. Another just finished running a marathon.

And there it is—that pinch in my chest that says, “Well, Tammi… look at your life.”

At this point in my life, I’m closer to the tomb than the womb. That’s just math. And it has a way of making me ask uncomfortable questions, like what I’ve actually done with all the years God handed me.

That’s my bad habit, playing the comparison game.

And sometimes it really gets to me. I start measuring my life against everybody else’s highlight reels. That never goes well. I catch myself staring at a browser tab that might as well be titled “Why Not Me.”

I tell myself it’s probably too late to make a difference now. That the best I’ve got to offer has already been spent.

Then something small usually interrupts my spiral. It’s usually something ordinary. A friend thanks me for listening when no one else had time. A neighbor mentions that one meal I cooked for them and how it blessed them on a day they were barely holding it together. Things I had already forgotten about were invaluable for someone else.

I had forgotten that God is working in me and had done more through my life than I even knew. Ephesians 3:20–21 says, “Now to him who is able to do far more abundantly than all that we ask or think, according to the power at work within us, to him be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, forever and ever. Amen.”

Somehow, God isn’t limited by my timeline the way I am. He’s still working with what I’ve got—right here, right now—using small, faithful things to do more than I could ever dream. Apparently, He has been doing this a long time.

So I closed that “Why Not Me” tab.

I open my planner instead. The real one. And I write down something simple: Do one thing today for somebody else.

Turns out, dreams don’t have expiration dates. Neither does kindness. So let’s stop comparing ourselves. Whether we’re baking or blessing, mentoring or mending, there’s always someone who could use what you can give. Maybe today it’s a phone call or a note or a meal made with a little extra butter. Maybe it’s just showing up when it would be easier not to.

And maybe that’s how God will do more in your life than you could ever ask or imagine— by living for Him one ordinary, heartfelt moment at a time.

A MOMENT TO REFLECT

Where do you find yourself comparing your life to others most often?
How has comparison shaped the way you view your own story or purpose?
Can you name a small moment when God used something ordinary you did to bless someone else?
What does it look like for you to trust that God is still working—right here, right now?
What is one simple act of faithfulness or kindness you could choose today instead of comparison?

January 12, 2026/by Tammi Arender

Safety in the Rock

Bri Dunn, Daily Devotional

Psalm 61:2 — From the ends of the earth, I cry to you for help when my heart is overwhelmed. Lead me to the towering rock of safety.

I remember sitting in the back seat as a little girl, the hum of the car engine filling the quiet between songs. My mom’s voice floated from the front, singing words I didn’t yet understand: “When my heart is overwhelmed, lead me to the Rock that is higher than I.”

Back then, I shrugged. What did that even mean? A rock higher than I? It sounded safe, sure, but abstract. I could sense that it was something good, but it just didn’t make sense yet. I just smiled and let the melody wash over me, not realizing how much it was being tucked into my heart.

Years later, I now find myself reaching for and singing those words myself. Life can be challenging and full of worries and responsibilities. My chest tightens from stress, but then I sing out that melody I learned from my mom.

“When my heart is overwhelmed…”

Psalm 61:2 comes to mind every time I sing that hymn. It says, “From the ends of the earth, I cry to you for help when my heart is overwhelmed. Lead me to the towering rock of safety.”

And just like that, the overwhelm shifts. It’s a habit etched deep in my heart, and I’m so thankful for my mom’s example because it modeled how I could turn to God even in the stress and put my trust in Him.

When I do, “the Rock that is higher than I” isn’t abstract anymore. He’s tangible. He’s powerful, and He’s the safest place I can run to when I’m overwhelmed.

Now I am the one in the front seat setting the example for others. When they see my life, I hope they can learn that there is someone we can all turn to when we feel crushed or overwhelmed.

Faith is often passed down in small ways like that. Not sermons. Not perfect words. Just habits, patterns, and examples repeated until they become part of who we are.

That’s what makes me stop and think. Who first showed you where to run when life felt heavy? And who is watching how you respond now? Foundations matter. Not because life spares us from difficulty, but because when it comes, we already know where to go.

A MOMENT TO REFLECT

When you feel overwhelmed, where is your instinct to run first?
Is there a song, verse, or prayer from your past that God brings back to you in stressful moments?
Who modeled faith for you in small, everyday ways—and how did that shape you?
What habits are you forming now that others might one day lean on?
What would it look like today to intentionally run to God as your place of safety instead of trying to carry everything alone?

Lyrics:

When my heart is overwhelmed
When I barely trust myself
Lead me to the Rock
Higher than I

When the night is closing in
To remind me of my sin
Lead me to the Rock
Higher than I

Lead me to the Rock
Higher than I

Higher than I
Higher than I
Higher than I
Higher than I

So much stronger
So much greater
So much wiser
So much higher

Higher than I
Higher than I

When the doubt is rising up
When it comes in like a flood
Lead me to the Rock
Higher than I
Yeah lead me to the Rock
Higher than I

Where else would I go
Who else would I run to
Where else would I go
Who else would I run to

Written by Steven Furtick, Chris Brown, Brandon Lake, Mitch Wong
©2025 Music by Elevation Worship Publishing / Brandon Lake Music / Original Wong Publishing / Bell Music Publishing

January 11, 2026/by Bri Dunn

Not Alone After All

Daily Devotional, Heart of the Artist

Psalm 94:19 — When the cares of my heart are many, your consolations cheer my soul.

I should have been on cloud nine, but instead I’m falling apart inside.

On paper, life is unreal. I’m touring with Bethel Music. I’m writing with people whose songs shaped my faith. I’m standing in rooms I never dreamed I’d ever be invited into. Everything is moving so fast, and everyone keeps telling me how blessed I am. I believe them. I really do.

But that night after returning from tour, standing in my boy’s bedroom, something inside me starts to break down.

My wife Brittany is putting one of our sons to bed. I’m lying next to another, just listening to his breathing. And out of nowhere, this wave of panic and depression hits me. My thoughts spiral so fast I don’t know what to do. I don’t recognize myself. I feel like I might crash out or do something crazy just to make the feeling stop.

Pride keeps me from calling anyone. It feels too vulnerable. So, instead, I text two of my closest friends. I tell them I’m not okay. I tell them I’m scared.

They try to call me back, but I don’t answer. I’m still trying to be dad, trying to be steady, and did I mention how vulnerable talking on the phone felt?

Then my phone buzzes again. It’s a voice message.

It’s my buddy, Micah.

I can tell he’s worried. But on his message, he just prays for me. With my son curled against me, I just listen to Micah’s prayer. And something breaks inside of me in a good way. It’s enough to breathe and enough for me to finally admit I can’t carry this alone.

You see, I haven’t told anyone how this season of touring and success makes me feel when I come home. Not even my wife. So I go to Brittany and confess everything I’ve been holding in. She just holds me close in that moment.

Looking back, and after months of professional counseling, I see what was going on that led to my crash out.

On tour, I had gotten so used to the adrenaline, mountaintops, and constant motion that my body didn’t know the difference between joy and pressure. It only knew stress, and when I got home and life got back to normal, the adrenaline crashed. It hit my mind hard and dark thoughts filled the places where stress once lived. Insecurities. Questions I’d never asked before. Lies I never thought I’d believe.

Getting help changed everything. Talking to my counselor reminded me that there is a true north even when my internal compass is spinning. Through every high and low, God is my steady constant to comfort me in the deepest places.

As we see in the Psalms, “When the cares of my heart are many, your consolations cheer my soul” (Psalm 94:19). And sometimes, God’s consolation sounds like a friend praying over you, or feels like arms holding you when you finally tell the truth.

That night changed how I listen to my limits. Even when life looks meaningful and full, the soul can still be overwhelmed. But God’s consolation often comes through people willing to step into the weight with us.

So maybe the bravest thing we can do is stop pretending we are fine and allow His comfort to meet us where we actually are.

— Brandon Lake

A MOMENT TO REFLECT

When life looks “good” on the outside, are there places in your heart that still feel overwhelmed or heavy?
What keeps you from asking for help when you’re struggling—fear, pride, or the pressure to appear strong?
Who has God placed in your life that could be a source of His comfort if you let them in?
In moments of anxiety or emotional exhaustion, where do you usually turn first—for relief or for distraction?
What would it look like today to stop pretending you’re fine and allow God’s consolation to meet you where you truly are?

January 10, 2026/by David Hall