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“A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for adversity.”

Proverbs 17:17

The open field beyond the castle stretches before him, quiet and still, yet Jonathan’s mind races. Gripping his bow, he draws the string back, steadying his aim. He sends the arrow soaring past the stone marker where his friend David hides.

The message of the arrow is clear: Run! it is not safe to return.

Minutes later, Jonathan and David meet in the clearing, their faces shadowed with grief. The danger is inescapable. King Saul, Jonathan’s father, has vowed to kill David. Yet here stands Jonathan, risking everything to save his closest friend.

Jonathan pulls off his cloak and hands it to David, followed by his weapons.

“Go in peace,” he whispers, despite the lump in his throat.

David’s eyes glisten with unshed tears as he grips Jonathan’s arm one last time before vanishing into the wilderness.

Friendship, at its best, looks a lot like Jonathan and David’s. As Israel’s prince, Jonathan had every reason to cling to his position and power, yet here he chooses David’s good above personal gain. He chose to stand in the gap to save David’s life though it would cost him greatly.

What might it look like to love like that today? Perhaps it means offering encouragement when someone feels lost or stepping aside to let someone else shine. When you lift others above yourself, you reflect a love that transforms hearts and points to something far greater.

“A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for adversity.”

Proverbs 17:17

There is something about January that feels like a clean slate. It invites me to pause and reflect on what truly matters. This year, as I have been thinking through my priorities, one thought has stayed with me: I want to be a better friend.

It is not that I do not care about my friendships—I do. But life gets busy. The demands of work, family, and everyday routines pile up, and suddenly, I realize that weeks have passed since I last checked in on someone I care about.

Deep down, though, I know I can do better.

As I have thought about this, I am reminded of the example of true friendship that Jesus showed. Even with the weight of His ministry, He always had time to connect—to make others feel seen and cared for. His love was active, intentional, and deeply personal.

I want to mirror that in my life. Maybe you do, too. If there is someone on your heart right now, I encourage you—send the text, make the call, say the prayer. It could mean more to them than you ever realized.