Ice Cream and Friendship
“A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another: just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another.”
John 13:34
Kenny had learned the hard way that people don’t always care. His home life was falling apart, and he carried that weight on his shoulders every day.
At school, he kept to himself, thinking that if he stayed quiet enough, no one would notice the pain he was carrying.
But Katie noticed.
The other kids laughed when Kenny stumbled and scattered his books across the cafeteria floor, but Katie didn’t. Kenny had braced himself, eyes locked on the floor when suddenly, another pair of hands reached down to help. He looked up to see her.
She did not even hesitate. She just handed him his books and said, “Come on, let’s get ice cream.”
Kenny stared at her. “What?”
She shrugged. “Ice cream fixes a lot.”
He wanted to tell her no, that he was fine, that she did not have to waste her time. But something about the way she looked at him—like she saw him—made him follow her out the door.
They did not talk about what had happened. She did not ask questions. They just sat together in the school courtyard, letting the warmth of the sun and the cold of the ice cream do what words couldn’t. And in that quiet space, Kenny felt something shift.
For the first time in a long time, Kenny did not feel invisible.
Years later, at graduation, Kenny prepared to give his valedictorian speech. He took a deep breath and leaned into the microphone.
“Most people think life is changed by big moments,” He paused and looked at Katie, “but sometimes, it’s something small. A kindness I didn’t deserve, from someone who didn’t have to care.”
When I think about Kenny and Katie, I am reminded that loving people like Jesus doesn’t have to be complicated. Sometimes, it looks like stopping for someone who thinks no one would.
Dear one, who in your life needs that kind of love? It doesn’t take much to change the trajectory of someone’s world.
You never know. It really could mean everything.
