A Super Life to Live
Philippians 2:4 — Don’t look out only for your own interests, but take an interest in others, too.
There are stories we’ve all played out in our heads and hearts since we were kids. Cops and robbers, kings and queens, or racecar drivers…
For me, I imagined life as a superhero.
Cape and all. With fight sequences, slow-motion landings, and last-second saves.
I remember having a trampoline in my back yard. That was the best place to play out action-packed superhero games with your friends.
The neighborhood kids and I would bounce and flip, shooting imaginary webs and lasers and taking turns being the hero while everyone else played the bad guys.
It was chaotic and creative and honestly… kind of perfect.
…until it wasn’t…
Because you remember how those childhood games go.
It’s all fun until someone breaks a rule. Rules, that of course, you are actively making up as you go. Rules that were never agreed upon. And just like that, the play fighting turns into real fighting.
Someone gets upset. Someone storms off crying. And somehow, the very next day, you all get back together again to play the same game expecting different results.
I think we still do that in life, don’t we?
We just don’t call it a game anymore.
We carry around quiet rules. Things like unspoken expectations about how people should treat us, respond to us, or show up for us. Some of those things are good. But some of them… are just our rules.
And when people don’t follow them, it stings. It feels like they’re playing it wrong.
But what if that’s the problem?
Maybe life was never meant to revolve around my version of the game. Maybe the real win isn’t getting others to meet my expectations, but learning to lay mine down long enough to truly see others. To value them above myself. To care for them.
Because the strongest kind of life—the kind that actually holds people together—doesn’t come from always being the hero. It looks more like Jesus’s life, who set aside the spotlight, picked up a towel, and served the people in front of Him.
Turns out, that’s a better story to tell, isn’t it?
And maybe, you start to see that winning looks a lot more like love.
A MOMENT TO REFLECT
- What “quiet rules” or unspoken expectations do you tend to place on others?
- How do you usually react when people don’t meet those expectations?
- In what ways did Jesus model humility and service instead of self-focus?
- What would it look like to genuinely value someone else’s needs above your own this week?
- Where might God be inviting you to trade being “right” for choosing love instead?
